One says that there are only two certain things in life: death and taxes. For the Christians, I believe I must add the third one: death by the church. Sooner or later you will be disappointed, misunderstood, misjudged, hurt, bitter, kicked-in-the-butt, etc.
Whenever it happens to you, I really hope that you can rise again from death, since usually afterwards you will more or less stick with the church no matter what happens. You have been killed once anyway, and there could not be possibly a worse thing than death. It won’t be an easy process; it will be damn difficult, indeed, but I do believe in life after death by the church.
And, to remember that actually perhaps we ourselves (including me, naturally) have taken our part in murdering our brothers and sisters in Christ; that we are actually agents of death, and not life, for some of them.